When people today talk about kissing, they do so in such a way that it's as casual as shaking someone's hand. In today's world young or old a kiss is like a handshake. If your dating someone, if you like someone, or even if your chosen in a game, you kiss. Since this idea that a kiss is something you can just throw away erupted into modern day America, 84% of kids have lost their lip virginity by the 5th grade. I wonder though, if a kiss is so casual and so miniscule compared to other ways of showing affection, why haven't I had mine? But this is one of those very few questions that I CAN answer. The reason is that not only am I part of the 16% who didn't have their first kiss in 5th grade.... but I am part of the 4.5% of people in general, who have never been kissed ever. I'm basically as virgin as it gets. I didn't have my first kiss not because I couldn't land a boyfriend... I've had a few, but because I believe that a kiss is NOT something as casual as a handshake, and that your first kiss is a moment you should remember for all eternity. If you let your first kiss slip away to a guy you don't really like and in place that you probably won't see again or remember 6 months from now let alone years, you've lost something precious. When I get my first kiss, probably much later than ALL of my friends, I want to feel the breath rush out of my in surprise and shock and happiness, I want it to feel like the Earth stopped turning for the few seconds of the kiss, and I want those few seconds to feel like an eternity. I want it to be special, I can't plan it out but I can hope that when I look up from that kiss there staring back at me will be the one I was supposed to have that kiss with. I really want my kiss to be spontaneous, but the one thing I've dreamed about for a while now is to have my first kiss in the rain. I don't know what makes the rain such a romantic thing, but to me it makes the moment even more special. I'm not like the 84% of the population I haven't gotten my first kiss yet for the sole reason that I truly believe,
A kiss is NOT a handshake. :)
"Don't try to control love, it will come at it's designated time, and when it does you'll feel like your life has been completed. Just let it flow."
goood im glad you think like that.
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but you'll remember ur first kiss too... it was while doing something you loved with someone u REALLY liked... i mean seriously... u REALLY liked him... and who knows... maybe some where u still do. :) You never know if it's meant to be or not.... here's some good advice "sometimes things dont always end up as planned but what's meant to be is meant to be". Yes i did make this up on the spot xD
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